The growing Facebook
post and request to vote and like this Nepali contestant for Miss World is
annoying me for a week or so now. I keep deleting the posts, requests, and
sometimes even friends that I barely know or post stuff like this. They keep
adding me and sending me these requests. I had just stopped getting Farmville requests
to become farmer. God! Help! I sometimes simply don’t want to hurt people’s
feeling by deleting them as friends, because tech savvy world is our days of Facebook,
Skype, and many other social networking sites and what not, it can be,
sometime, only way to keep in touch. I keep them low, they keep growing. I keep
sorting them and deleting the unknown, sneaky friends but they keep growing.
Sometimes I don’t even see some decent, important and serious posts or update
of some real friends because they are so many and Facebook shows so much
nowadays, but again I have to pull my hair out when I see same repetitive “Let’s
Make this Girl Miss Nepal” page. Full of it.
I hate ignorance
and I am allergic to stupidity. This whole business of Miss World, Miss Universe, Miss teen,
Miss Mom, and Miss Teen USA is very degrading and oppressive toward women. To approve,
to look forward to, to organize, to watch, is stupidity, non-sense and
demeaning. It is the greatest sin against women that men have ever done. Walk
on stage semi naked girls, night gowns, in bras and panties, to enjoy them
showing their cleavage and video graphing the ‘camel toes’ is outright, offensive
perversion of men. It is evil, sinister, foolish, wicked, and immoral and it is
disturbing notion to feed to our human decency. To select a handful of stupid, skinny,
immature, unread and inexperienced fools from all over the world, out of 6
billion population and making them walk in a horrible way, talking about their size
of breast and buttocks, asking ready-made questions and cheering up and
crowning (as if they were queens of fifteenth century) them Miss world is
beyond the realm of any ridiculous satire to our intelligence.
In most animals
and primates, male are the ones that perform the wooing activity, they have to
impress the female for courtship, friendship, partnership and authority over
female. Human is perhaps a rare animal in which female is subject to make a
male happy, woo and amuse him, dance for him, be naked and sing for him. This didn’t
happen just like that. If we surrender our reasons to major religious books
like Bible, Gita, and Koran, we can find how God’s plan has been rectified,
amended and grooved and has been just a shadow into our conscious self and we
have been programmed to think, just like these Facebook Miss Nepal supporters.
Even women have accepted their position. Mind you here, all the religious
books, all the philosophical position were taken and commanded by men. Yes, Men
alone. Nowhere were women involved except to please sexually, or to reproduce
or to cook or to take care of man. This is what I call century’s long, brainwashed,
biased understanding and programming of men and women. This is immoral and
stupid. This is demeaning and should be given equal condemnation as slavery,
child marriage, perversion, racial segregation and so on. We should abolish
this miss world, miss universe organization just like slavery, child marriage
or polygamy to make a better, more decent and perversion free society.
I was always
against these shows. When my fellow classmates enjoyed the cleavage and camel
toes, I wrote letter to Khagendra Saugraula to support his decision to
demonstrate against such beauty pageant outside the Birendra Convention center.
Khagendra Saugraula was my hero at that time because he hated those shows too.
Many things I didn’t agree. He was a pro Maoist. I have met him personally. Once
he came to our school in a literature meeting. I had read his books before. I
had particularly read and was impressed by his memory about his childhood teacher
which was published in ‘Madhupark’, I don’t remember when perhaps around 1997? He
was a chain smoker; he used to be a pro-Maoist, a sympathizer of poor and had
hate for rich aristocrat people. I don’t know if he has changed his position
after Maoist turned from a good start with public support and sympathy to disastrous,
political, bribery full administration and filthy moral possessing, deadly gang
owning, teacher and professor killing, women hurting terroristic finish.
Nonetheless, the point here is I had a chance to talk with him when he came to
our school Baranda to smoke and encouraged me about my skills in poem writing. About
three hours or so, he talked about socialism, monarchy, Miss Nepal and such peasants
but forgot to talk about literature. Also we had to go warm up his tea couple
of times. He was so passionate vibrant, clear, loud, and authoritative, full of
energy for an old skinny man that he was. He was writing against Monarch when
he could have been arrested and prosecuted. Perhaps he was arrested, I can’t remember
now. I admired him for his courage and bravery to stand in front of the hostile
crowd, where they would organize such reagents and demonstrate, give speeches. The
entire stupid crowd took him for granted. They called him ‘old fool, whose
sexual energy has died’… ‘He can’t respect beauty, what kind of poet is he?…and
other such idiotic statements. He did it for many years, every year. But the
evil is so growing, nowadays these people organizes such pageants underground
without any advertisement and public knowledge. That’s the irony.
Dr. DP Bhandari
was a columnist in Kantipur- Saptahik that was published every Friday. He sounded
like a real pervert. But, he was a real talent in using his multi-language
vocabulary. He started writing in his old age, so I could see he had lot to say
about youth, sexuality and women. Although his writing was a monotonous and
indirect brag about his sexual encounters with women, in person he was humble
and shy. I used to go listen to his lecture, and student would want him to say
something pervert, indicate something about sex or provoke him in the class,
all the time. He was an alright writer, that I have to say but I hated him for
his perversion, and his support for such pageants. At one point he bashed
Khagendra calling him a ‘nagging old man, who knows nothing about sexuality’
while Khagendra replied back in his weekly column referring to him as ‘an old, prevent,
and jail deserving pedophile’. Their
battle continued for months and months through different columns and letters to
newspaper and I enjoyed both sides of the debate.
When influential
people like those, take a position, it is effective to move a mass. For right
reason or wrong, Girija was able to control crowd with his controversial
statements. He abolished the Monarchy by betrayal though but moved the mass
with his classic ‘Grand Design’ speeches. But shame to those idiots who take a position,
just because it is bandwagon, wanted by the crowd, and fulfill their sexually
perverted fantasies by shaking of nipples and of transparent camel toes of
these so called beauties. Hail to those who stand against such notion, in good conscience,
to oppose the oppression on women, for them awaits a reward of human decency. I
offer crown of stupidity, and medal of mediocre idiocy to those who post and
ask me to like or vote some bitches in Facebook. They do NOT, never ever, not in thousand
lives, in any ways represent Nepal or any other country. They are not any
ambassador of peace nor they advocate any particular culture, nor represent any
beautifulness of Nepal. They have become just a showpiece of market. I assert
his position: they are no one, they are just high profile prostitute whom world
knows, who show their body, even the most private one to gain some fake crown
and stupid titles and sell their dignity to some rich men’s perversion and
idiotic poor men’s fantasies and perhaps to my brainwashed Nepalese Facebook friends
who have now determined to vote their asses off to make this British born Nepalese
girl their representation. Shame to those who post airbrushed, photoshoped
pictures of their buttocks, oiled body, and operated lips; they know not what
they do. Be aware, have some human decency. Women beauty, sexuality, glamour, freedom,
expression, talent, determination, life’s goal or other things which they claim
to promote in this representation in not attained by flashing camel toes.
Irving
7/22/2012
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